A Kid to Feed a Widow’s Kids

Myla could hardly believe it—her beloved husband, Robi, was gone. A sudden heart attack had taken his life, and with it, her security. Her two young children had lost their father, and the weight of their care now rested solely on her shoulders.

With Robi’s income as a hotel chef, the family had lived comfortably. Their two children were well‐fed and were gaining an education. In a culture where women’s roles are typically confined to the domestic sphere, Myla had focused on caring for their children and their home. 1 She had depended on Robi for the family’s income. Now—at just 28 years old—Myla was alone, reeling with grief and seeing no way to adequately provide for her children.

A Lone Struggle

Myla and her children
Myla (pictured) struggled to provide for her children after her husband’s sudden death.

Myla had no family nearby. Robi’s family hadn’t approved of their marriage because of Myla’s social standing, so the couple had moved to another region.

Now Myla faced another discrimination: widowhood. Already devastated by the loss of her husband, she must endure rejection and scorn because of this new title. Myla’s neighbours even claimed she had eaten her husband. Their disdain added to Myla’s pain and disparaged her heavy heart. Sadly, this treatment is common in a region where people often consider a widow an “ill omen” and might exclude her from public activities simply because she has lost her husband. 2

As a widow, Myla’s economic opportunities were severely limited. Fortunately, she had some land to cultivate. Many widows in her area, deprived of social and economic rights by the death of their husband, lose their property rights, too. 3 But the vegetables Myla grew didn’t yield enough income to support her children’s education. Determined her children would continue their schooling, Myla sought work elsewhere to supplement their income. Still, the three struggled to maintain their lives.

A New Husbandry

GFA World pastor blesses a goat to be gifted to family
GFA pastor Nilay (pictured) prayed blessings over Myla’s goat.

A faithful believer, Myla likely clung to her faith, praying for God to intervene in her situation. God knew the extent of her need and the hurt of her heart. Myla and Robi had been faithful to God with their finances, consistently giving their tithe and offerings. Surely God would provide for Myla and her children in Robi’s absence. As “father of the fatherless, a defender of widows” (Psalm 68:5), God began to work on Myla’s behalf through His people.

GFA missionary Hinda, leader of the local Women’s Fellowship, knew of Myla’s struggles and longed to help her dear sister. Contacting regional leadership, Hinda arranged for Myla to receive a pregnant goat. This goat could provide Myla with a regular income. Hardy animals, goats require little space and upkeep, and they multiply quickly. 4

Immediately, the weight of her children’s care became lighter as this hoofed creature shared the load. Joy filled Myla’s heart. With the help of this goat, Myla had hope for the future.

“Because I have this goat, I am able to move further in life,” Myla said. “I have a hope that I will be able to multiply this goat, and through it I will be able to provide [for] my children's needs.”

Local GFA pastor Nilay prayed blessings over Myla’s goat. He was confident God would provide for this widow and her children through this bleating creature. Myla could use the goat’s manure to nourish her growing crops. Offspring could provide nourishment for her family or be easily sold. 5 As the goat multiplied, it could grow into a small herd, and the goats could provide nutritious meat. A great source for protein, goats’ lean meat includes iron, vitamin B12, zinc and potassium. 6

Gratitude filled Myla’s heart. God had proven Himself faithful. Myla resolved to steward well this blessing and committed to give back to God His portion of the goats and the income they were sure to bring.

Though she was a widow, Myla was neither alone nor destitute. She was cared for and loved. Her children would still be fed and educated, and they had hope for a better future, thanks to the provision God had sent through His people in the form of a goat.

Share the Load

Girl holding a GFA World provided goat
An income-generating animal such as a goat can empower families to offer a better future to their children.

Many other families remain destitute. You can be a conduit of answered prayer that carries God’s love and faithfulness to these families in need. A single goat, or other income-generating animal, can lift a huge burden from families struggling to put food on the table. These animals can empower families to break a cycle of poverty, gain financial stability and offer a brighter future for their children and generations to come.

This Christmas, you can tangibly demonstrate Christ’s love to an impoverished family in Asia or Africa by providing such an animal. This gift will lighten their load—and it could transform their lives.

Give a Goat

You can help alleviate their poverty and give them hope! By giving toward animals, such as goats, you can provide poor families with the means to increase their income and free them from a life of despair and destitution, while at the same time help them understand God’s love for them.

  1. Thapa, Lily. “Nepali widows: changing colours, changing mindsets.” 13 July 2016. https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/5050/nepal-s-widows-changing-colours-changing-mindsets/ .
  2. Thapa, Lily. “Nepali widows: changing colours, changing mindsets.” 13 July 2016. https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/5050/nepal-s-widows-changing-colours-changing-mindsets/ .
  3. Thapa, Lily. “Nepali widows: changing colours, changing mindsets.” 13 July 2016. https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/5050/nepal-s-widows-changing-colours-changing-mindsets/ .
  4. Roy’s Farm. “Best 14 Advantages of Goat Farming Business.” Updated September 2, 2022. https://www.roysfarm.com/advantages-of-goat-farming/ .
  5. Lohani, Mahendra, and Dilip Bhandari. “The Importance of Goats in the World.” Professional Agricultural Workers Journal. Vol. 6: No. 2, 4. https://tuspubs.tuskegee.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1146&context=pawj .
  6. Hallal, Fatima. “Is Goat Meat Healthy? All You Need to Know.” Healthline. February 10, 2022. https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/goat-meat-benefits

*Names of people and places may have been changed for privacy and security reasons. Images are GFA stock photos used for representation purposes and are not the actual person/location, unless otherwise noted.

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